All Night Long

July 27, 2009 by  
Filed under Mommy Monday

Every summer Kali’s sleep pattern gets thrown out of whack. I allow it. Maybe I feel guilty for not being able to afford summer camps (not that I’d allow her to sleep away from home) or fancy family vacations. (Once Mama graduates and gets a J-O-B that will change.)

That may have something to do with it, but the main reason I allow it is because I remember the magic of staying up all night. When I’d visit my father in the summer, I did it many times. Hanging out in his basement after everyone had gone to sleep was how I discovered Elvis, The Beatles and Jimmy Stewart movies. More importantly, it’s where I discovered my favorite author Ed McBain. When you’re a kid, breaking night somehow makes you feel all grown up. It’s during those times that I did some of my grandest dreaming and plotted some of my most ambitious adventures.

Staying up all night is one of the few times you have the house to yourself as a kid. You know, without the whole “child neglect” involved in leaving kids home alone. I remember the fun of it and I don’t want to begrudge Kali that.

Of course, times are different and with satellite cable and the internet I have to be more vigilant in what she’s doing while the rest of us slumber. A quick history check of the web browsers shows that she (and my little sister) are more interested in Twilight fan fiction than Jimmy Stewart movies, but whatever.

As school time approaches, I slowly start to get her back on a normal schedule. Today, I made her get up at 9:30am to go with Jack and I to the doctor (she went to bed at 1am.) That beats the down at 6am and up at 4pm schedule she was on a few weeks ago.

She has never had a problem bouncing back once school starts so I’m not worried. If she wants to build pillow and blanket forts in the summertime, and read Maniac Magee and Tales of  a 4th Grade Nothing until the sun comes up, I’ll allow it. There will be a time, before she knows it, when she won’t be able to enjoy such luxuries even during the summertime.

Do your kids sleeping habits change during the summer? If so, do you find it difficult to get them back on track once school rolls around? What are some of your favorite breaking night memories from childhood.

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I remember my sleep being all out of whack due to the summer break. I remember my mom calling us several times during the day to ensure we hadn't killed one another and that we had infact cleant the house and whatnot.

My biggest thrill of summer break was being able to stay up and watch this cartoon that came on at midnight. It was a competition my sister and competed with one another on. We considered ourselves cool if we made it to see that cartoon at night.

You're a cool mum! I think everyone's sleep is outta whack in the summer. I know mine is.

I can't remember a time where I didn't have to do something in the mornings. As a child or an adult.... Whre I grew up we generally went to school all year with 2 week breaks here and there.

Regardless, when I was with my family, I was always allowed to stay up as late as I needed/wanted. Both my parents thought learning to set my own sleep cycles was an important lesson to learn.

I think it's sweet that the ladies get late night time together.

My mom and I used to stay up a good portion of the night playing video games. I loved that time. Unfortunately, because I've always had to work, I really didn't get to do that with my daughter, but she did get to stay up as late as she wanted in the summer. I agree, too soon and Kali will no longer have that option.

Me too! Me and my mom used to play Mouse Trap on the ColecoVision and Pac-Man on Atari. Fun times.

Also, the summer of 2007 Kali and I were complete bums. We'd stay up ALL NIGHT playing video games, watching movies and just eating snacks. Then, we'd get blanket and pillows and sleep on the sofa/love seat. Donny would just kiss up goodnight/goodbye as he left for work. We have fond memories of that summer. I'm glad we have them.

My son is 14, he lives for weekends and summers to stay up all night, who knows what time I'm sleep no later than 1am, he averages about 3am, im sure. He wakes up at 2pm to call me at work to say im up. An hour later, he's on his way to the pool.

I allow it and let him enjoy it, because you're right this was his last summer for that, next year he will indeed be punching in at someone's Summer Youth Program at 9am.

School starts 8/31 and he has to be there at 7:05 am school bus comes at 6:35am, I will put him back on his 10pm bedtime, probably a week before, he has never given me any problems getting up in the mornings.

I know with that school schedule he will be begging to go to bed, probably before 10pm. lol

Yeah, but those first couple weeks back are a bitch. I remember those days

Me too. I'm trying to get her back on track earlier.

When I was about 10 or 11, I loved getting up at the @ss crack of dawn. I loved sneaking out to the den, playing music low and watching the sun rise. My mother, grandmother and the rest of the neighborhood was still asleep. I could pretend the sun was just for me. By the time I turned 13, 14, I did a 180 and would stay up all night or get up in the middle of the night. There's something about tiptoeing around the house while everybody was sleep. It made me feel like I was getting away with something even though I wasn't doing a damn thing but listening to my record player, sneaking cookies, and reading books by flashlight!

this isn't really related but an interesting story I thought... two girlfriends of mine have crackhead mothers. Both friends are wonderfully strong, independent, ambitious and successful women, and both of their mothers are still crackheads. Both girls were accustomed to staying up late or all night with their crackhead mothers and both are fearless in ways I could only dream of. Both of them keep the weirdest hours ever--it is not uncommon for either of them to stay up til 4 in the morning, just doing normal house stuff. When most people start yawning, they are wide awake. Weird.

So yeah I didn't really have a point, ha! Kids staying up all night in the summer is great, I loved watching MTV with all the doors open, back in like 1988, and they definitely need a parent to monitor getting their sleep schedule back on track for the school year.

My boys stay up just a little bit later, not much though. I remember though staying up much later though at their age. They get so grumpy though and kind of beg to go to bed.

Hey did you get me tweet about the book you was looking for? The Dice Man...

No, I didn't see it! Let me scroll down Tweetdeck. THANKS!!

I could never stay up late. I guess playing ball all damn day wore my ass out.
And I love breakfast too much to miss it.

I love you!

Also, you STILL can't hang! So annoying on the weekends.

I think it's great that you let Kali stay up. My grandparents were really strict so I ALWAYS had a bed time. The only time I was allowed to stay up all night was when I spent the night at a friends or at my fathers or some other realtives that weren't directly linked to my grandmother.

Even when I had my own slumber party, my grandmother made all our asses go to bed at midnight!

My father's was always the best though, it was me and my 3 brothers. Our ages went one right after the other (13,12,11,10,9...they are my step brothers). The boys had one big bedroom in the basement and I slept down there with them when I would stay for the summers. We would stay up all night watching movies and "In Living Color" We would roughhouse and build forts out of blankets, pillows and bed frames. We could make all the noise in the world, our parents bedroom was on the otherside of the house and upstairs but we would act like if someone got loud, daddy would be down with the belt. It was so much fun. Kali is lucky to have parents that let her experience things like that :)

My favorite memories include playing hide and go seek until the sun came up in my grandmother's woods. We were not teenagers yet, but my brother and I and some cousins would do this once a summer at least!!!

Some more favs include hanging out all night in the treehouse. OR staying up with the older cousins watching horror movies (we weren't supposed to! LOL) OR here recently.....spending all night catching up with friends whilst camping!!!

My kids stay up as late as they want during the summer. The twins are 10 and Austin is 12. Of course "as late as they want" usually only lasts until about 2am so I don't have a HUGE problem with it.. I'm usually up that late anyways.

My general rule is that I make them start going to bed at regular school time on August 1st. School starts on the 25th so usually WELL before school starts they are back on their regular schedules.

This year will be tough though for the oldest. He starts middle school and has to be at school by 6:45 each morning. I take him to school so that means leaving the house by 6:30 at the least. Which means getting up at 5:45. That's a full hour and a half earlier than he had to get up last year. So there's part of me that wants to make his school night bedtime 30 minutes earlier to try to compensate...

That's rough! Why the hell are they making kids go to school so damn early? A lot of people don't have to be at work that early! Yeah, I'd try to get him a bed a bit earlier and see if that helps him. BUT kids are so awesome. They only need a good week or two before their bodies adjust to new schedules.

Something seems abusive about that kind of school schedule at that age.

My sleeping habits change during summer too but I guess thats just apart of growing up. I find myself taking naps literally. I nap for two hours, take a 30 minute break, sleep again and this goes on till i get up for work. I miss being a kid sometimes. Summer was so cool not having to work just stay home and be a kid. As an adult, well, you get called a bum for doing so... I dont wanna get called a bum for it... I wanna be called a "teacher" with student benefits lmao

See, that's what I meant. In a few years, she may have a summer job and so these early childhood summers to kinda do what you want are important. Time flies. Also, it's not like she's not getting ANY sleep. She has just been sleeping during the day. Like I said though, she's slowly shifting back to her normal schedule.